Hi, I’m Alexa –

It’s my ultimate pleasure to empower single women and folks to move beyond dating frustration and step into their full magic so they can magnetize extraordinary love with confidence and pleasure.

I’ve always wanted to be in love. Really. For as long as I can remember. It started in kindergarten, when I gave my girl-child heart to a crush in the form of my beloved locket, hoping he felt the same way. He didn’t!

But that longing has guided my journey ever since, through heartbreak, self-discovery, and profound personal growth, shaping the way I approach love and relationships today.

Here’s the short version of my story:

In my early 20s
On the outside, I was having the time of my life. I was traveling, working, living downtown but I was disconnected from my body and pleasure. I didn’t understand my sexual desires and believed my pleasure was someone else’s responsibility. I lived in shame, longing for the vibrant love lives I saw in others.

In my mid-20s
I moved overseas for the love of my life after two years of long-distance. Within four months of living together, our relationship crumbled. When I heard the words, “You aren’t shiny enough for me,” I knew I had to move out and rebuild on my own. I had no community, barely enough money for two months’ rent, and no job. It was a character-defining breakup that clarified what I wasn’t willing to accept and sparked a profound growth chapter in my life.

In my early 30s
I left a safe, sweet relationship that had slipped into passionless, roommate territory, trusting that something more nourishing and aligned was possible. That leap led me to neo-Tantra, sacred sexuality, and a lifestyle rooted in self-discovery, empowerment, and desire. Through deep inner work and a weaving of ancient and modern teachings, I learned to live intentionally, with self-love and pleasure at the forefront. In that process, I discovered my own radiance and vibrance.

In my mid-30s
I was experiencing an exponential rise in consciousness and energy. I transformed my life. I left my job, travelled the world, and pursued my personal development desires. I became intentional about everything: the food I ate, the content I consumed, the people I surrounded myself with, how I spent my free time, and who I allowed into my body.

For two years, I chose celibacy. I felt radiant, alive, and powerful but also lonely. I craved partnership and intimacy, yet my heart wasn’t fully open.

It was only when I got crystal clear on what I wanted (and committed to the inner work like my life depended on it) that everything began to shift. I opened the floodgates for ecstasy, bliss, and love to come pouring in, sometimes all at once. I got what I asked for: partnership, family, commitment and mind-blowing intimacy because I surrendered, stayed open, and discovered the balance between action and energy.

Learning to receive it all has been its own lesson.

It hasn’t been easy, but it has been the most liberating, soul-awakening, and love-filled journey of my life. And it’s the very path that inspires me to guide other women on their own transformation.

Who I help

If you’ve ever:

  • Felt stuck in old dating patterns

  • Been frustrated by short-lived connections

  • Been unsure how to bring your full self into love

  • Still healing or figuring out what you want

You’re not alone.

As a certified Sex, Love, and Relationship Coach, I specialize in empowerment and conscious dating.

My coaching goes beyond surface-level advice. I help women and folks embody their radiance, release what no longer serves them, and cultivate self-trust, worthiness, and magnetism that naturally draws extraordinary love.

With me, you’ll learn to:

  • Get clear on your desires to align with the relationship you truly want

  • Break free from old patterns that keep you stuck

  • Heal past wounds and feel safe opening to intimacy

  • Step into your power and be unapologetically seen

  • Embrace sensuality and self-love to date with radiance and authenticity

  • Expand your capacity for love by connecting with your body’s wisdom and desires

What I do:

I blend modern coaching tools with ancient practices from Tantra and Taoism, plus breathwork, embodiment, meditation, and visualization—creating a holistic, sacred, and practical path to love.

My approach isn’t about playing games or following rigid dating rules. I combine modern dating science with Eastern energy work and spiritual philosophy, empowering you to become magnetic to the right partner by being fully, radiantly yourself.

Whether you’re calling in aligned partnership, working on personal growth before love, tending to a tender heart after separation or simply wanting to feel empowered and confident in dating, I’m here to walk beside you every step of the way.

My Coaching

In 2017, I enrolled in my first ever Tantra workshop. It was a simple featherlight touch practice that blew my mind. From there, I went into a rabbit hole of reading, attending classes, and researching.

At the end of 2020, I began 650 hours of Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching training with Layla Martin. This was where I learned the true medicinal power of pleasure and love, and how the two are inextricably woven into the human experience through the body and through the nervous system.

I studied in Marina Nabão's Artistry of Embodiment Coaching for 2 years to further my training and depth of space holding for transformations in a deeply embodied way. 

I fully immersed myself for 6 weeks in the jungle studying with Tantric and Taoist masters Shashi Solluna and Minke De Vos in their full in-person Tao Tantric Arts training.

I have studied and practiced over 1,000+ hours in this work and guided professionally 100+ hours of coaching with clients. 

I am certified in Conscious Dating and Women’s Empowerment, a combination I hold dear both personally and in practice. I am continuing my studies in somatics, nervous system work, and embodied sexuality to deepen my understanding of how energy, pleasure, and presence shape our capacity for love and connection.

 FAQs

  • Using a trauma-informed, Tantric-approach and somatic-based method to hold a deep and loving space for my clients, I work with women and vulva-owners to shed a loving light on themselves so they can go out and be beacons of light for others.

    Especially if you feel stuck, and desiring to move the needle towards expansion, growth and transformation, I am here to support, hold space and mirror your greatness while helping you to remember your worth, power and wholeness.

    Self-love and self-compassion are the threads that weave through every desire in life. It’s at the center of your energy, your sense of worthiness, and a litmus test for how you show up in the world. 

    This is where I come in.

    I provide a balance of science and woo to connect you to your body, soul and source of pleasure so you can find sustainable love starting with yourself that then spills over into being and cultivating connections with others.

  • In a nutshell, my coaching style is invitational, collaborative, holistic and curious. I also incorporate somatic practices and techniques that work to help guide you out of your head and into your body. That being said, however, the best way to see if we’re a match is to meet me for a free 45-minute online consultation call. You can book one right here.

  • Coaching works exceedingly well when you’re able to begin to envision a desire. It works best for those who have done some work and who are in the process of healing and integrating. As long as you keep showing up, are willing to do the work and keep putting your heart and soul into it, you will experience how coaching can have the capacity to transform your life. Working within a desire-based model, we will uncover what it is you want, and I will help you get from where you are today to where you want to be tomorrow while discovering, uncovering and lovingly moving through the obstacles along the way.

  • While my approach to coaching is rooted and embedded in spirituality, ancient practices from Tantra and Taosim, I can very easily adapt my verbiage and space-holding to reflect a more secular approach.

  • It’s called “homeplay” and it’s a more exciting version of the assignments you were given in school. It’s a way to take what you learned in our sessions and embody them until we meet again. Not only is homeplay effective and oftentimes fun, it’s a sure fire way to accelerate results while in our coaching container.

  • Yes! The transmission and depth of the process can still be felt and experienced through the screen. The best part? It’s all in the comfort of your own space so you’re more at ease in your familiar surroundings. This can be helpful in reaching deeper and harder-to-access parts of you.

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